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Narcissism is at the center of the human condition, resting at the place where the desires of the self intersect with relationships with others. Are you better than others, more deserving, more special? Or are you on the same plane as others, connected and part of a larger whole? From this intersection of self and other, narcissism is manifested in inflated self-conceptions, interpersonal self-regulation, and relationships at all levels of human behavior, from cultural independence to private fantasies of power. In this chapter, we focus on narcissists' interpersonal self-regulatory efforts with a focus on narcissists' romantic life. We do so in an effort to narrow our discussion and also as a nod to the myth of Narcissus, which pitted the romantic love of self against the love of another. However, we also bring into the discussion findings from a range of interpersonal settings. The manifestations of narcissism in romantic …